About
About BlogOnlineDating.com
The “Big Daddy Blogger” Thomas Baldrick is a 7-Time Emmy Award-winning
television writer, producer, reporter, and host. The highlight of his TV romance
career came as Senior Producer of “A Wedding Story.” Thomas helped guide the
series to the #1 rated show on the TLC television network.
Now, he’s actively transforming his career to internet content development. He’s
also transforming his personal life as a divorced, single Daddy who wants to be a
great, loving parent to his son, as well as a great loving husband to the woman who
will be his partner and best friend whenever she’s ready to enter his life.
Welcome! Welcome! Welcome! C’mon in to our community and conversation.
We’re happy you’re here. For a whole lot of reasons it’s a pleasure to have
you sharing in this blog just as you are. Your time here hopefully helps you
as well as others.
You see, singles aren’t just singles. Women aren’t just women. Men aren’t
just men. We’re all people. And we all have good and nice things inside us,
including hopes and dreams for finding life, love and happiness with the
ideal or perfect relationship partner.
Online dating is like anything else in life. You get out of it what you put into
it. You reap what you sow. Your perception creates your reality. You can’t
win it, if you’re not in it, right?
Your attitude is everything!
Trust me and remember this: If you think it sucks to be starting over at
your age on the singles scene then guess what? It does. And it will continue
to suck until you give yourself the gift of a positive attitude adjustment.
This blog aims to help you. You’ll enjoy the online dating process and be
more successful with it if you think and act positive, feel good, and learn
something new. Wouldn’t it be more rewarding to have a sense of wonder,
confidence, clarity, and curiosity? After all, like it or not, you are exploring
and embarking upon a new, unique adventure of finding the love and the life
you want.
Yes, it can be scary. Yes, it can be rather confusing. Yes, it can be incredibly
frustrating and disheartening at times. It can even be so discouraging or
painful that you reach the point where you try to convince yourself you’re
better off alone. You are not. I guarantee you two things that always suck
more than online dating are fear and loneliness.
By putting yourself out there on the internet to find the right man, woman,
and relationship, you give yourself a chance. It’s a real chance, too. I’m
proof. You also give yourself the priceless gift of hope. And hope has the
ability to outrun, outlast, outsmart, and overpower any fears you might have
on any given day or night, whether it means weeks, months, or even years.
There are some real benefits to online dating.
Convenience
Fun
Selective and specific searching
Using technology readily available
Low-cost solution
Ability to multi-task…my computer can be searching for love while
you’re out living life.
Here’s how I looked at Online Dating Websites and arrived at the
conclusion to try it.
In my younger and wilder days, I spent a great deal of time and way too
much money in bars. Yeah, it was fun. Yeah, it was stupid. But yeah, it
also gave me the opportunity of a social setting to meet some really great
women.
Today, I’ve got enough of a fight with counting calories! I have no interest
in losing a day, an hour, or a minute fighting another hangover. Now, I
choose to face that I am a 40-something divorced Dad (with a hot bod, a big
and kind heart, a real ear for listening, and a great sense of humor Ladies!)
Sure, I trust and believe I’m wiser, not just older. But more importantly, I
know I am just different. It’s simply life experience and personal growth.
